Welcome to Andieland ---- The mind is like a parachute, for it to work it must first be open.

Well happy monday - or is it? Sometimes it feels like I'm waiting for the next thing to happen. Just going through the motions of everyday life until --- bam here it is something. A change of pace, a tragedy, a promotion, something shook something up, someone has something to deal with, etc. You know what I'm saying. Well my family just got bigger (for the time being). We live in a small house there is no extra room. My husbands nephew , notice that I didn't say my nephew,( we are not legally married) is in dire straits and for some reason we are the only people the can help. My lividness and ire are still surface bound so I can see the whole picture, just my picture. I was not consulted, I was at work when all these arrangements were made. Now if I put my foot down this 19 year old will have nothing. Somehow I don't see how thats my fault. I realize he is my husbands family but hes not really mine, I only met him once. Now he's in my living room playing video games!What about his mom or dad, you may ask? Still I have no answers. This whole story is really not fitting together. Now my husband has made it his personal mission (and mine) to help this boy, get him a job, somewhere to live, a licesne,etc. AND I WAS EVEN ASKED. Anyway My husband went and picked him up sat. came home yesterday he had to drive 3 hours there and then back. He 's a well mannered boy (maybe sheltered) he needs someone who knows whats/ what to help him.Where he was staying I think they may have taken advantage of his nieve nature. So now he's here. And so goes the next thing to happen .